When a client leaves

in ThoughtfulDailyPost9 months ago

Greetings!

"We don't own clients; we steal them, keep them for a period, and lose them to others."

Wondering who is the great person that said that? Well, I haven't heard it from anyone or read it anywhere; it's just something that came to my mind when I was in church today.

But that's the absolute truth: the clients we are enjoying patronage from today as business people were once other people's clients. They came to us, or let me say, we stole them, and one day, they're going to leave us for others too. In church today, I saw a client who just suddenly stopped patronizing my business last year. I knew he was in town, even though I hadn't been seeing him. Although I tried to build up the relationship to make him stay, it didn't work, and I didn't push myself beyond my limits. I just accepted that my time was up and it was time for him to go to another business person.

I would have felt really bad if I had done something wrong before he left. I checked very carefully, and there wasn't any day we had issues with how I handled the job he gave to me. That's me. I always tell people that yes, issues are bound to happen between business owners and clients, but those issues can't be related to how I technically or professionally treat the work. Other things, such as a poor relationship, can happen, and I try very hard to keep up, but it can't just be the technicality of how I handle my work. So whenever I notice that a client is going away or has gone away, I also smile because I am very sure that whatever made him lose interest in my service can't be related to the service I provided.

When things like that happen, we shouldn't overthink it. Many reasons may be attached to it, and it's best to let go.

What if the client's very close relative has just opened the same business and he decided to patronize his relative? This is very common in our world today because every business is competitive. Even I have close relatives and good neighbors who decided to start patronizing me when I joined the business I'm doing today. That's life for us!

Another possible reason could be that the client is putting checks in place. An example might be that there is a nearby center to his house and he didn't see any reason to pay for transportation to come to yours when he can easily walk and get the service from a nearby business.

Just like I mentioned above, when I started my laundry business, the people on my street already had places they were taking their clothes to be worked on. But when they noticed that they could do the same with me without having to pay a transport fee, they switched to me,....like I stole them from their former business person.

That's just how life is. When you lose a customer, don't overthink it. It was just the time for that person to go. After all, business is like a barracks: the more soldiers that are going, the more new ones are coming in.

Thanks for reading.


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Clients come from need, recognition, and relationship. It's easy to overthink why a client doesn't return, like we used to ruminate over why the other children don't like me.
We are not meant to mesh or get along with everyone. Frankly, how boring would the world be if that were true? We wouldn't ever find "our people"!
I'm sure you value those who return enough to feel like family. Stay open to new relationships, seek out and be vulnerable to the new, and don't dwell on the ones that move on, other than honestly reflecting on why. If your lucky, asking the ones that leave to let you know why without fear of hearing the truth will, on rare occasions, be honest and helpful.

asking the ones that leave to let you know why without fear of hearing the truth will, on rare occasions, be honest and helpful.

Yeah, this is a sure way to help to rearrange and re-strategize, but the problem is the boldness to ask and also, most of them don't like to say out because if it's bad, they may feel it'll affect the businessman's emotions.

Thank you so much for this

Yes, asking can make people uncomfortable. Consider asking all of your customers periodically. That way if becomes part of normal customer care.
For new customers, it's safe to say things like "Thank you for trying me out" or "So glad to have you; how did you hear about me?" are nonthreatening.
Customers that are unhappy, unable to afford, or just found a better fit or deal for them will rarely tell you. People HATE confrontation.
My interfaces were different. I would mail or email people I hadn't heard from in a while with the following:

"I haven't seen you in a while, and hope everything is going well.
If you've chosen to stop using my services, I would appreciate getting your feedback as to why. Don't worry; I'm not going to be persistent!
Not every connection succeeds or is meant to happen. I respect your opinions, and your thoughts may help me improve what I do."

Mailing this as a handwritten or printed note with a postage paid return envelope was far more powerful than email.

Lol but you said it though. These customers once patronized someone else's business and then later they will switch. It all depends on their personal convictions and satisfactions.

Yeah, it all depends on their personal likes

Exactly 👍

Just as you say it is for one that others will seek your services. The important thing is that you subtract a quality service.
Greetings @kingsleyy

Yeah, that's it.
Thanks you for stopping by🙌

Ell I think the main reason for that is Business is all about packaging and rendering out good services as well, if your service is poor those customers will still divert to another even you neigbour offering good service at an affordable price

Yeah, that's one aspect of it too.

Thank you for stopping by

Umw

So you’re the great person that said this?
Nice one😂😂
I agree though and if you are very careful, you might never lose the customers.

Hahahahah!
Maybe I should start doing wordings. People need to see what's inside of me.
Thank you for stopping by

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That is the strange thing about clients, there are those who would go extra miles to patronise your business, while there are others that no matter what you do to keep them they would always find a reason not to come back. We can only try our best to make sure of service is topnotch because when it comes to customers we lose some and we gain some.

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#Dreemerforlife

That's it my brother. We can only put our best and we are not guaranteed of anyone staying or coming.
We accept things the way they come.
Thank you bro.

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You said it all! Any client we have patronising our business today was once another person's client, and one day may decide to move on. Understanding this will help some people not to have high blood pressure each time a customer moves on.
#dreemerforlife