Clearer, impossible ...

No one with self-esteem stays where it hurts to exist... It's that simple!!!.

Our self-esteem defines who we bond with and who we stay with. We stay by the side of the person that our self-esteem can support. The lower it goes, the more we suffer. Has this happened to you?

In short accounts...

When we give everything and receive NOTHING in return, the one who did not calculate well was oneself.As long as we think we deserve the least, we will attract just that. In fact, in terms of a partner, we attract what we think we deserve and the proof is that we stay next to that person and life is assumed in two senses: you live it to be happy or you live it to meet the expectations of others.

Don't look for in others what you don't give to yourself. First get to know yourself, accept yourself, rebuild yourself for yourself. Understand your worth as a person. And believe me, a new love will come along at the right time.

When you no longer belong to a place, life is going to take care of putting uncomfortable scenarios until we get out of there, and although everything seems chaotic it is only happening because something much better is waiting for us. We have to pay attention to life when it pushes us out of where we shouldn't be. What we regret losing today, tomorrow we will thank for having left.

As we treat ourselves, so they treat us.

A momentary pain is better than a lifetime. Walking away hurts, staying even more. Walking away is an act of self-love, but it's not always easy to learn how to build the most important relationship with yourself. To love ourselves is not to betray ourselves
We often spend years justifying the unjustifiable.

Every affront, every humiliation, every indifference, disguised them as love. “All relationships have ups and downs”" we repeat to ourselves, trying to convince ourselves that what is so bad deep down is not. "It's normal, love overcomes everything."

Until one day you look in the mirror and you don't recognize yourself. You had become someone who was asking permission to be.

Fundamentally, self-love is not just walking away from what hurts, it's understanding why you were there for so long. Because many times the problem is not the other, but the fear of being alone, the need for validation, the hope that one day everything will change. But if the price of staying is losing yourself, you've already lost everything. Do you realize that?

To love is not to endure, it is not to justify, it is not to stay where you have to betray yourself to fit in. Walking away is not selfishness, it's emotional healing. And if you don't know where to start, then start by giving yourself the opportunity to heal and start building the most important relationship that you really need for yourself: the one with yourself, where you can be yourself and self-love is present in that search to be your best version.

We are all unique. It is vital to remember that each person is unique and brings with them a world of potentialities, skills and talents.

The bad tongues say that the self-esteem we have says a lot about who we hang out with. Have you ever wondered why we often stay in relationships where we suffer deeply and even become blurred? Because we stop being ourselves to become what the other person wants.

Janitze.🌷