In my life experience I have dealt with so many personal conditions and I can affirm with total certainty that: Love can contribute directly and effectively in healing the wounds that emotional pain causes us.
Love is a feeling that allows us to feel connected causing a sense of security that is reflected in a state of physical and mental well-being. In the same way, it is self-love, which is for ourselves, towards our partner, family and friends, is the best way to live wisely, and not only reduces anxiety and stress, it also influences good mental and spiritual health.
It is my impression that True Love is not fashionable; we live so fast-paced in immediacy that we do not stop to get to know each other, we change partners at the first problem, we do not struggle to maintain worthwhile friendships since "I relate to the one that suits me financially" and loving older adults, for example our parents, is already considered from another era or old-fashioned.
We are replaceable in what we do, but not in who we are. What you do, someone else can do; but what you are and what you transmit, no. Everyone is unique, let's not forget ✨
I see all this every day with the people around me.
For this reason this month we celebrate the day of love and friendship, I would like to highlight the importance of this feeling that can change for the better any situation no matter how difficult it is, I am not talking about that by loving we do not go through storms or diseases, is that these if they are full of love to give and receive will make the path of thorns easier and why not? It will cause roses to sprout that perfume the soul in suffering.
I remember one of the most difficult moments of my life, which was to accompany my maternal grandmother in her last breath, that morning it was rainy, my grandmother was surrounded by the love of her children, grandchildren, husband and family, that love gave us and her the strength to say goodbye to this plane; I could see from the front row the miracle of love filling my grandmother with peace, serenity and acceptance.
Falling in love will always be ideal, finding ourselves in each other's eyes, with their glades and shadows, and then the challenges will come.
Love has its complexities and SELF-love is no exception.
From the ideal or understanding that love is imperfect, as imperfect as each one of us, and that is that each person loves as lov is.
I invite you that this week and every day of our lives we work for love, this is a decision that we have to fight for every moment. I think I'll keep writing about the best of feelings: love️️. In the photos my presents for this day, dinner a day before, flowers, a good whiskey and these delicious chocolates..
Happy day of love and friendship, in the world is what is most needed Love and kindness. How do you live love?
Janitze.🌷❣️
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL
