
When two people love each other, they accept each other as they are, but when one of the members of the couple has behaviors that harm the other, and is not able to negotiate those behaviors or is not able to help each other with therapy, in such a way that their attitudes do not harm, then, definitely, that couple has no remedy, and the affected party has to leave, without consideration, without expecting miracles, without continuing to fall into the self-deception of “he is going to change someday, but he does not know how”…
We should never regret having had the best intentions, doing everything that was in our hands or having a good heart. And it doesn't matter that at the end of the day things don't work out for us, that someone leaves or that something doesn't last forever, because all that heals sooner or later.
The really important thing is that one never changes all that beautiful things one has, that we don't stop dreaming just because something didn't work out for us, that we don't stop falling in love just because something hurt us.
Healing our self-esteem and finding happiness requires working on oneself.
Let's not settle for being half-loved, we deserve someone who values us completely.
Separating from a bad love is not a failure. In fact, it is a success to send the fuck to those who make our life unbearable.
Do not allow them to minimize you, to judge you, to belittle your value.
The biggest job of your life starts with you.Love enhances the good in us. Love makes us strong.
Take the time to rebuild yourself and open up to love when you are ready, because love makes you grow. Love makes us better people. Love drives us to live situations that, without love, would not be fully lived.
And love doesn't just apply to the couple...
True love is the most powerful energy, it repairs, heals and transforms with the purpose of genuinely educating us.
Therefore, it is necessary to specify the substitutes (the worst copy of the original), those lacking and ambivalent styles of "love", NO more.
Separating from a bad love is not a failure. In fact, it is a success to send the fuck to the one who makes your life unbearable.
Life will not always be as we dream it...!
In this one, maybe we will have to face difficult moments, overcome obstacles, you will feel sometimes not being able to continue, and it will be good that it is so. That's what living is all about, experiencing, smiling, crying, being just us.
It's about remembering that no matter how difficult the situation we face, there will always be a tomorrow, a new opportunity, a new beginning, and that if something comes into our life it's because we need it, even if sometimes it hurts.
Janitze 🌹
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
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