hahahah thanks for the compliments...
Well I try always to be light, and share common feelings that probably someone have the same being as much as transparent as possible. I just gave this advice for a new member of our community. The more you are transparent the more identification someone can feel the same!
Parenting has many challenges that I totally understand why someone would fear it! I will be frank, my first daughter was only born because my wife did some pressure... I felt that I wasn't ready! I was just finishing my Ph.D, and for me I didn't have enough support for a kid hehe.
It is all about moments and it is ok not to be a parent, unless you regret that in the future. I know many people who got old and now it is too late to have kids and they regret it.