It is a difficult task when you evolve you progress in fact, it can take courage to do it and improve my personal structure every day.
Unfortunately, people will not always have the courage to tell you that they are no longer connecting with you.
Sometimes, I just have to read the energies and leave the table. It's taking the initiative. Letting go of the guilt of letting go. To have the courage to walk without them because sometimes that's all I need.
I often find myself in situations where people come up to me, and once I hold on, it's me who's left chasing them.
It seems that I am always the one who puts all the effort, while they fade away once they have obtained what they needed. It's exhausting and leaves me feeling empty, wondering why I end up stuck in this cycle.
The million dollar question I have right now is.... Aha, I get away, I disconnect, I improve and my life takes better directions. But, there are certain moments when the questions that didn't have an answer come up, and I always try to understand everything. I tell myself quite a lot that even silences are answered. It is quite difficult that precise moment.
There were times in my past when I held on to regret, convinced that I should have done things differently. But today, I choose to let go of the weight of those 'what ifs...'. I accept my mistakes, my learning curves and I free myself from guilt.
From my own experience I understood that there are questions that have no answers, that I should not get involved in looking for them because obviously I get more entangled and it costs me much more of that loop.
So I opt for silence, which also says a lot, because the best thing is to save myself an ending that obviously I won't have and get on with my life.
Of something, if I am sure Mr. @galenkp, I have no doubt that I have stopped obsessing about being the best version with the control I have stopped fighting with life to start really living with everything good that I have starting with myself, with more calm and with more flexibility.
It is useless to make a mistake if we do not take the first step to transform ourselves and become better, at least this practice has worked for me.
I tell myself that I'm doing the best I can and that's enough. The more stress I have, the more my self-care grows
Janitze 🌹
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